15 posts tagged “australia”
Sat., Dec. 22, 2007, 1:08 A.M. EST (06:08 UT), marks the solstice—the beginning of winter in the Northern Hemisphere/summer in the Southern Hemisphere.
The December solstice celebration marks the origins of Christmas. In the fourth century Pope Julius I declared Christmas to be on December 25, and Jesus' birth was conveniently attributed to this date .
When I was at home, in Canada, I celebrated Winter Solstice, more so than Christmas. I have really been feeling that living in the Southern hemisphere has rather altered, and dare I say, further dislocated my sense of order. With no real expectations, I stayed up last night to see the sunrise (which began about 5 past 4 a.m, and finished at around 4:45 a.m., when the sun was fully in the sky).
I meditated for a bit, not on the passing of the longest night the way I would do at home, but rather on the shortest - and in the end, was struck by the dawning realization (pardon the pun) that perhaps all things do unfold in a timely and ordered way in my life - even when they seem on the surface to be entirely, upside down.
I've always seen Summer Solstice as a carefree time (which I am not connecting with so much at the moment) and had to work more so to remember that the knowledge of life is also, even if by default - the knowledge of death, all things are transitory. At the moment, I'm feeling very out of touch with the 'carefree' energy of Summer Solstice - and find it easier to consider 'after harvest' the waning of energy as opposed to the waxing of it. Ironically, this is exactly what Litha invites.
So, here, in Australia, in keeping with the reversal of astronomical/weather patterns, I'm celebrating Litha today - Summer solstice. Litha symbolizes beauty, love, strength, energy, rejoicing in the warmth of the sun, and the promise of the fruitfulness to come. I will use today to celebrate life, and the triumph of light, but to also acknowledge death and the passing away of that which has served its purpose, and must be released.
Burning some cedar oil and wishing a Merry Litha to you all!
I cannot believe I haven't written about this .... I guess I was just too damn upset to want to be still and write about it.
For those who have been tracking my "Move to Australia" saga ...you will know that we have had MAJOR problems with our moving company, Fleet World Wide Shipping, now forever known as Fleet World Wide Pirates ..
After waiting nine long months - we finally had a partial shipment of our goods delivered to Australia from England at the beginning of July. There was wild familial applause as it meant we could at long last actually sleep in beds, have a selection of clothing, and enjoy some of our nice things. Sadly, like everything else associated with this move - the ideal and the reality didn't quite coincide.
First off, we had been told that the majority of things had been sent, barring 'a few boxes of books". The reality? We received a lot of bits and pieces of things .... for instance; the head board and foot board for my bed arrived, with no side rails to put it together. My son's bed got the side rails, no head board or foot board. The china cabinet arrived, with no shelves or doors. This is only the tip o' the iceberg by way of examples.
Next, the amount of breakage was heart breaking. Our main television, which was only a year old arrived looking like this ... the outside pkg-ing was in pristine condition - but the t.v looked like it had been (imagine this) kicked in by some angry Pirate.
There were many other precious bits - broken beyond repair, including this, a favorite piece of Italian Glassware. Tho I have successfully moved that piece many many times - it was unable to survive the TLC of the Pirates. Several items that had belonged to my Granny that held huge sentimental value - also gone the way of the Dodo.
In an effort to save money, hubby had decided we would forgo insurance and hope for the best - after all, FWW claimed they had charged us 3x more due in part to the "special deluxe packaging' ... yeah, no insurance ... yet another decision we now deeply regret.
So here we sit, still minus much of our belongings ... and now being charged storage fees on the balance which remain un-shipped in England!! Lemme tell you my darlings, piracy is alive and well in the year 2007
I desperately wish I had a lawyer in the family - cuz it would give me unbelievable pleasure to sue the asses off the Pirates and end this once and for all.
On the upside - life is more comfortable - even with only part of our things being here and some of the things I desperately needed (personal documentation being right up there) has made its way here. I only wish I could feel more positive about things - but even writing this little bit about it has me in tears. It's been a hard ol' time these last months - and the party isn't over.
News ...news ... where do I begin?
Well my quest to establish working status in Aussie continues. I've now plunged into dealing with Queensland Social Services directly - and joy of joys, it seems they may actually get this social working, therapy thumping chick back into the saddle. Cross fingers, say prayers, throw pennies into your local wishing well!
All this said, I reckon there may be a reason why Social Services is eager to assist me.
From an ideological place, this is not a great time to be heading into Child Protection in Australia. The Howard gov't here has implemented a new strategy to 'help' aboriginal families and communities, as of June 25th or so. Ostensibly, the legislation is an initiative to stop the 'epidemic of child abuse' in aboriginal communities in the Outback/Northern Territories but the entirety of these initiatives is very invasive/paternalistic - well fuck it, I have to say it's down right RACIST! and is of course, likely to impact people's perceptions about aboriginal people, communities and problems (if not the actual policies and services).
Firstly, John Howard (it's possible that George Bush has a twin brother) is sending the military into aboriginal communities and increasing police presence (more like inventing a police state) supposedly to encourage a sense of safety that will allow women and children to disclose their abuses (!?). (It goes without saying the witch hunt has already begun).
All pornography and alcohol is to be banned in these aboriginal communities. The next part of 'the plan' is to withhold all welfare cheques to families who there is reason to believe have substance abuse problems AND to impose medical examinations on all children under the age of 16!! Somehow, all of this (not surprisingly) ties into land claims - what sorta turns my stomach is that the aboriginal community seems to be limiting their outrage to this aspect of the changes - or perhaps it is more accurate to say, the news is reflecting this aspect of aboriginal outrage, more so than any other. I would expect to see (want to see) massive outrage and screaming about the challenge to aboriginal rights and freedoms across the board.
It will be serious fun and games for social workers who will be called to police these social/political and legal sanctions - to withhold money from already impoverished families, to enforce medical examinations of children, to remove children from these homes. It's so over the top and beyond the pale, I cannot believe it is happening. Literally, I am gob smacked.
I don't know how these bits of legislation will impact my personal and professional integrity as a social worker. Suffice it to say - I have concerns.
If you are interested ...
Australia imposes draconian restrictions on Aboriginal communities;
BIG READ: Charge of the Band-Aid Brigade;
BIG READ: The Charge of the Band-Aid Brigade Part Two;
Little Children Are Sacred report.
The upside to all of this is no one is going to want to do social work, and there won't be enough people to fill the need - and hopefully this means that I will be able to find myself a job.
Who says there isn't a silver lining to every story?
Not being Australian, not, being a t.v watcher and not being a political gal of great brain ... I am trying to wrap my head around the television commercials for Anti-Terrorism, here in Australia. I don't really get them.
The commercials say things like --- "You can help the Australian Gov't stamp out terrorism - if you suspect your neighbor (or anyone else) is a terrorist, please phone this 24 - hour, confidential number. (You too can accuse your neighbor in absolute privacy). Protecting Australians against terrorism - this commercial, brought to you by the Australian Gov't, Canberra."
Seems to me this is a lot like the great 'Big Brother' Jew hunts in Nazi Germany .. or any other witch hunt in history. What's even scarier is, Australians don't seem to notice that the whole thing is WEIRD.
Click if you feel compelled to read Protecting Australia Against Terrorism 2006
The commercials say things like --- "You can help the Australian Gov't stamp out terrorism - if you suspect your neighbor (or anyone else) is a terrorist, please phone this 24 - hour, confidential number. (You too can accuse your neighbor in absolute privacy). Protecting Australians against terrorism - this commercial, brought to you by the Australian Gov't, Canberra."
Seems to me this is a lot like the great 'Big Brother' Jew hunts in Nazi Germany .. or any other witch hunt in history. What's even scarier is, Australians don't seem to notice that the whole thing is WEIRD.
Click if you feel compelled to read Protecting Australia Against Terrorism 2006
I've been out of commission in blog land for the past few days - we've got stomach flu making its evil presence felt in our house.
This brings me to an observation about parenthood and children.
Sometimes it is very difficult figuring out where we end and they begin.
Case in point, last week Middle Miss started school here in Aussie. Her first day was about as terrible as anyone could imagine it - everything literally went wrong for her. When she came in the door, I knew instantly that things had gone badly amok. As I sat with her while she cried (most of that evening and the next morning too) - bitterly unhappy about her new school - I found myself in tears too. I didn't just 'feel sorry' for her, or just 'empathize' - I felt upset and sad right there with her.
I desperately wanted her first day of school to go well. I want her to settle in a new place (country, home, neighborhood, school system) and feel good about it. I would like her to benefit from the amazing opportunity to live in another country.
I want her to be happy.
I can do (and did do) some damage control. I can call the school and let them know that they dropped the ball with my kid. She didn't get the support she was promised. No books, no locker, no buddy, no help deciphering her new timetable, no discussion about the sucky elective she was dropped into. I can let the school know as a parent, I am not impressed and I would like more from the school. But I can't make things FEEL good for my kid.
Day two at school went better. She got some help, some books, a locker, some idea about her timetable. She came through the door and I could instantly 'read' she felt at least a little happier. This meant I too, was a little happier.
Today, she is sick. Last one in a family of four to get intimate with our new roommate, the flu. She wasn't sure if she should go into school or not - she's still 'verging' on flu. I was giving her a hug, and I could smell the scent of sick on her. Not because she is throwing up yet, not because there is anything wrong with her hygiene, she had just had a shower to get ready for school - but because I am her mom.
I gave birth and when I did, I got a built in radar that literally lets me smell illness in my child, before she is barfing. Go figure.
Parenthood is a curious trip - it seems we are hardwired to our kids in so many different ways; physically, emotionally, financially, psychically. No wonder it is hard sometimes to know where I end, and they begin. It's not a 'good' thing, or a 'bad' thing - it's just 'a thing'. Ya know?
This brings me to an observation about parenthood and children.
Sometimes it is very difficult figuring out where we end and they begin.
Case in point, last week Middle Miss started school here in Aussie. Her first day was about as terrible as anyone could imagine it - everything literally went wrong for her. When she came in the door, I knew instantly that things had gone badly amok. As I sat with her while she cried (most of that evening and the next morning too) - bitterly unhappy about her new school - I found myself in tears too. I didn't just 'feel sorry' for her, or just 'empathize' - I felt upset and sad right there with her.
I desperately wanted her first day of school to go well. I want her to settle in a new place (country, home, neighborhood, school system) and feel good about it. I would like her to benefit from the amazing opportunity to live in another country.
I want her to be happy.
I can do (and did do) some damage control. I can call the school and let them know that they dropped the ball with my kid. She didn't get the support she was promised. No books, no locker, no buddy, no help deciphering her new timetable, no discussion about the sucky elective she was dropped into. I can let the school know as a parent, I am not impressed and I would like more from the school. But I can't make things FEEL good for my kid.
Day two at school went better. She got some help, some books, a locker, some idea about her timetable. She came through the door and I could instantly 'read' she felt at least a little happier. This meant I too, was a little happier.
Today, she is sick. Last one in a family of four to get intimate with our new roommate, the flu. She wasn't sure if she should go into school or not - she's still 'verging' on flu. I was giving her a hug, and I could smell the scent of sick on her. Not because she is throwing up yet, not because there is anything wrong with her hygiene, she had just had a shower to get ready for school - but because I am her mom.
I gave birth and when I did, I got a built in radar that literally lets me smell illness in my child, before she is barfing. Go figure.
Parenthood is a curious trip - it seems we are hardwired to our kids in so many different ways; physically, emotionally, financially, psychically. No wonder it is hard sometimes to know where I end, and they begin. It's not a 'good' thing, or a 'bad' thing - it's just 'a thing'. Ya know?
So this afternoon Middle Miss and myself went downtown to the Queen Street Mall looking for school shoes. This is akin to finding the Holy Grail as they must be a very specific type of shoe - black leather, lace-up, < 3 CM heel height. You would think in a place where all children must wear ugly footwear, that plenty of stores would keep a good supply. Not so.
Queen Street Mall is a shopper's paradise - all kinds of yummy stores, mini 'malls - designer boutiques, shoe stores galore. But we did not find "them" and my daughter is not gonna go to school until she has the 'right' shoes on her feet, on account the school policy makes a breech of footwear sound a lot like committing first degree murder. Our first visit to the school involved us overhearing a kid getting suspended for breech of some dress code rule or other.
I'm Canadian - we don't wear school uniforms - I'm not opposed to uniforms - in fact I think they are great for a few reasons - but I also think kids can and should be allowed to personalize them with other things - hair, jewelry, funky socks - whatevah. As Canadians, we don't tend to 'sweat the small stuff' - education is of a high quality but it takes place in a much more relaxed atmosphere. Aussie is promoted as the land of laid back - I'm not seeing much evidence of this when it comes to the education system or anything bureaucratic (not that this is an Aussie-only thing).
Now, Missy says she's not gonna flaunt school policy - no dying hair, no make up, no conspicuous jewelry blah blah -- good on her - but I have to tell you, I read/listen to all this 'RULES' shit and it makes MY ass twitch. It makes ME rebellious. If it was me, I'd probably wear whatever I wanted on my feet - damn the torpedoes - and I would be the girl sitting in the naughty chair in the detention room too. I realize I am not the person who has to go to a new school, in a new country.
I celebrate my daughter's common sense and her ability to think strategically - to work out how to get the best result for what she wants - which right now, is to go to school and not have a bunch of crap thrown at her for being 'different'. She's a smart chick. So.... because of my daughter's infinite good sense and desire to avoid trouble ... I will be heading back to the Queen Street Mall again tomorrow morning to find the Holy Grail of ugly shoes. Sheesh - can't they at least have a uniform shop like in the UK - where you can get all the trimmings in one handy location!?
Queen Street Mall is a shopper's paradise - all kinds of yummy stores, mini 'malls - designer boutiques, shoe stores galore. But we did not find "them" and my daughter is not gonna go to school until she has the 'right' shoes on her feet, on account the school policy makes a breech of footwear sound a lot like committing first degree murder. Our first visit to the school involved us overhearing a kid getting suspended for breech of some dress code rule or other.
I'm Canadian - we don't wear school uniforms - I'm not opposed to uniforms - in fact I think they are great for a few reasons - but I also think kids can and should be allowed to personalize them with other things - hair, jewelry, funky socks - whatevah. As Canadians, we don't tend to 'sweat the small stuff' - education is of a high quality but it takes place in a much more relaxed atmosphere. Aussie is promoted as the land of laid back - I'm not seeing much evidence of this when it comes to the education system or anything bureaucratic (not that this is an Aussie-only thing).
Now, Missy says she's not gonna flaunt school policy - no dying hair, no make up, no conspicuous jewelry blah blah -- good on her - but I have to tell you, I read/listen to all this 'RULES' shit and it makes MY ass twitch. It makes ME rebellious. If it was me, I'd probably wear whatever I wanted on my feet - damn the torpedoes - and I would be the girl sitting in the naughty chair in the detention room too. I realize I am not the person who has to go to a new school, in a new country.
I celebrate my daughter's common sense and her ability to think strategically - to work out how to get the best result for what she wants - which right now, is to go to school and not have a bunch of crap thrown at her for being 'different'. She's a smart chick. So.... because of my daughter's infinite good sense and desire to avoid trouble ... I will be heading back to the Queen Street Mall again tomorrow morning to find the Holy Grail of ugly shoes. Sheesh - can't they at least have a uniform shop like in the UK - where you can get all the trimmings in one handy location!?
I'm having a fantasy ... it's utterly sublime.
It all began when hubby messaged from work to tell me he'd been talking with the movers. Apparently our stuff is here, in Australia. It must have cleared Customs, and it did for sure go through quarantine cuz all my wicker baskets needed to be treated , along with two pairs of shoes. (Aussies don't want none dat UK/Canadian soil on der soil)
So, in spite of my well earned cynicism, I am getting turned on by the idea that I may, very soon, after eight loooong months of separation ... be reunited with ...
It all began when hubby messaged from work to tell me he'd been talking with the movers. Apparently our stuff is here, in Australia. It must have cleared Customs, and it did for sure go through quarantine cuz all my wicker baskets needed to be treated , along with two pairs of shoes. (Aussies don't want none dat UK/Canadian soil on der soil)
So, in spite of my well earned cynicism, I am getting turned on by the idea that I may, very soon, after eight loooong months of separation ... be reunited with ...
Yes, my bed.
I'm weak with anticipation. And that pic up there, that is really precisely what my bed looks like. So I don't know when it is coming, there's been no definitive date of delivery which is maddening. However, I'm a couple steps closer to my bed, and hopefully our reunion won't remain a fantasy much longer.
Ahhh I *HEART* my bed.
I'm weak with anticipation. And that pic up there, that is really precisely what my bed looks like. So I don't know when it is coming, there's been no definitive date of delivery which is maddening. However, I'm a couple steps closer to my bed, and hopefully our reunion won't remain a fantasy much longer.
Ahhh I *HEART* my bed.
It's so great to be the bearer of some good news fer a change! As I reported in an earlier post, the lad is back in school as of last Thursday and seems to be easing into the swing of it all - he is off to play soccer tomorrow, and wants to do it - has to be a good thing. Missy Moo has her school interview on Monday and should be into school early next week! YAY both kids sorted ... sorta.
PLUS - hubby produced a letter from Immigration when he got home from work this evening - the waiver has been approved and I can now get on with applying for my change of visa without leaving the country! Fanfriggin'tastic - there is at last, movement!!
Now PUHLEEZE gimme my sofa!
Freedom ... it's an interesting concept - and certainly one that has been pondered by far more brilliant minds than my own - are we free, or are we not? Where do we have choice, control - power? Where do we not?
I think about this a lot - where am I free? I can certainly appreciate the limitations of my freedom. There's a lot of things we don't get to choose; the family we are born into, our gender, the color of our skin, the economic circumstances we will grow and develop within. I don't get to choose that Fleet Worldwide Pirates hijacked all my worldly belongings, I don't get to control how long it takes for he Immigration Department to process my visa application. I don't get to control the rules that say I cannot work in Australia until the bureaucracy says I can.
So where is my freedom?
It occurs to me that freedom is not the state of having no adversity in my life - rather it is the awareness that I struggle, think, challenge myself to overcome adversity.
Get out of bed, get some fresh air - write the letters, jump the hoops. It's not moving fast ... it's definitely not easy - I guess that's why they call it adversity.
I think about this a lot - where am I free? I can certainly appreciate the limitations of my freedom. There's a lot of things we don't get to choose; the family we are born into, our gender, the color of our skin, the economic circumstances we will grow and develop within. I don't get to choose that Fleet Worldwide Pirates hijacked all my worldly belongings, I don't get to control how long it takes for he Immigration Department to process my visa application. I don't get to control the rules that say I cannot work in Australia until the bureaucracy says I can.
So where is my freedom?
It occurs to me that freedom is not the state of having no adversity in my life - rather it is the awareness that I struggle, think, challenge myself to overcome adversity.
Get out of bed, get some fresh air - write the letters, jump the hoops. It's not moving fast ... it's definitely not easy - I guess that's why they call it adversity.